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In Winnipeg, there is a self defense class taught called Tiger Claw. By the sounds of it, this is most likely the type of thing you are searching for. It is not sport oriented at all. It is strictly self defense. I believe it is for 18+. There has to be some mental maturity and an understanding of when the use is appropriate and not...which kids generally do not have at age 9, 13 or 16. I understand that police forces have been using Tiger Claw in training. It has a strong component of Judo with other things mixed in. My husband and a brother both took it.
I have not heard of anything similar being taught in Brandon, although I could be wrong.
I know that further west, there are classes fully devoted to the self defense only component of judo. We do not have that sort of intense club here. Those classes are more street use stuff and not moves that would be allowed on a competitive mat due to their nature. Those same clubs also have a competitive (sport) and also a recreational class for those who don't want more. The self defense portion is only open to 18+, and for good reason.
As much as all martial arts have their benefits (and weaknesses) in self defense, of course it all depends on the situation being faced as to might work best in the moment and in the particular situation. It can depend on if you have space or no space, for example, or if it is school yard bullying or an attack of another sort. There are always many variables. Sometimes the best defense is not at all flashy, but subtle. Having the skills to defend yourself if you do happen to get into a tight situation is always good.
We have had our daughter, when even still young and tiny, defend herself against a much larger bully by using judo. We know of other children who did this too. In her case, the other child was showing off his martial arts skills, in the other cases it was the typical pushing and shoving situations. None using this defense hurt the other, nor did the ones using judo get in trouble, but in each case the bullying stopped and respect was earned.
Scott Middleton is correct. Good advice there. Not all clubs, even in the same discipline, are created equal. I also wanted to add, just because a person has achieved a high belt level doesn't mean that they are an effective teacher either. You do really need to check around as he & others have stated.
I also want to add that a club in a different part of town or in a different city/province could give you a totally different take (positive/negative) on what the martial art/sport truly is...just like anything else. Your experience could be vastly different somewhere else. Don't let one or two bad eggs spoil the sport/art for you. I think that you can find those in any discipline.
I hope someone can direct you to what you are looking for.