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Breaking boundaries


  •  LoadedGun
    Joined: Oct 2011
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     LoadedGun
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    Breaking boundaries 
    4/2/2016 at 7:38 PM
    I've been communicating a boundary with a family member, that is not being respected. It sets me off that I'm being dragged into something that I have no control over, and would sooner be removed from the discussion.  
     
    I know some people recommend cutting this person out of your life, for lack of respect. But I want to continue pursuing other options.
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  •  Brenda..
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     Brenda..
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    4/2/2016 at 7:47 PM
    Tell this person straight up, what you have just said here. Be truthful, straight forward, and use the right tone of words.
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  •  Spades!!
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     Spades!!
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    Some people never respect boundaries 
    4/2/2016 at 8:34 PM
    All you can do is continue to reinforce them. Some people respond to consequences if boundaries broken others don't care. It's for you to decide how far you will allow people to go. You can't force people to respect your boundaries if they don't care.  
     
    Tough situation. Good luck.
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  •  PT1001
    Joined: Dec 2013
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     PT1001
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    What is your boundary? 
    4/2/2016 at 8:55 PM
    No info whatsoever.  
    You've not provided any boundary point. It could be anything) and we get all kinds of help. Pitching in! Good luck.  
     
    Edited by Kellye, 2016-04-02 21:04:56
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