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Your definition of deadbeat dad is so far off it makes me want to scream. Do you know how many parents don't even have the luxury of child support? Give your tiny brain a good shake and stand up on your own two feet. You don''t need to rely on a man. Be a good example for your children. Show them independence and pride. It will go farther than a couple of extra dollars you feel so entitled to.  
 
Edited by inbetween, 2017-07-06 20:56:01

Believe me. I have friends who don't see a dime. And I'm not one who squanders child support: it's used for her daycare bill so I can work and provide for her. But just cause a man pays does not make him a good father. When it's court ordered, or they pay the least amount they have to, because they feel like they were wronged, is not a good situation. I do not feel entitled. I pay for whatever my daughter needs. When a father, or any parent for that matter, had to be ordered to pay and still fights it, then does not see their child because it inconveniences them, they are a deadbeat.

would be a dad who pays nothing for child support and who has no interest on seeing or spending time with his child. I was that child-a small cheque once a month would have made a world of difference to my mother and me. If you are getting support, you have nothing to complain about. If he doesn't want to be inconvenienced by spending time with his kid, don't worry about it-a dad like that your child is better off without. Be glad you get what you do and never mind about him

A dead beat father. He never paid child support my whole life. Gave my mom a 100$ check that bounced once. Heck he lived just down the street from us and we never knew.  
Sorry but if your getting support payments any extras are your responisibility.

wow some weman just cant get anough wow money money money more money this so called sweet mother crying dead beat wow she needs help in more ways in one and the shitty part is she has the courts backing this so called mother that wants more matanice inforecement backs weman like this the courts back them to there just no winning for the single dads out there wist is sad lots of honest dads have to become a crimanail in order to make a living like drive with no lic to go to work like work for cash money so he dont have to pay more has to do cash only because back is seized and in my case i was paying the hole time so when i see weman like this crying for more it makes me wanna puke