| | Someday.. said "I'd love to hear what people feed their toddlers for lunch/dinner. I feel like my son is the pickiest eater ever and we can't get him to eat outside his usual.. chicken fingers, fish (that we call chicken fingers lol), alphaghetti, beans, soups with a ridiculous amount of crackers. I can't get him to eat veggies for the life of me, so we put veggies in his smoothies. He eats all the same snacks as above.
Any different meal ideas?! " |
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Limit the crackers or offer half of a whole grain bun as an option. Set ground rules. Options are still good. Kids love to make their own decisions. It helps them feel big. Also have him help you make some healthy meals & snacks. They will eat a greater variety if they have made it!
I agree with RC123!
Our children learned to eat what is on the table. They need to be grateful that they can eat at all. Many people even in this country (and around the world) can't afford a good meal. Taking an appropriate amount of food (smaller portions to start) and then not wasting it is also a rule in our home. No treats/dessert until they are done is another.
When our children were very young, we exposed them to a variety of real (not really processed/sugary/salty) foods. This way, they develop a palate for this instead of for the processed stuff. The theory is that foods that are introduced often in small amounts are more acceptable to them after a time.
Sometimes it is not a true dislike, but a battle of wills. Every kid starts this very young. We had one child who ate cold eggs multiple days later once she got hungry enough. The food came out at each meal and each time a snack was requested until she finally ate it. She had been warned how it would be at first refusal (and that those eggs taste better fresh) and she made her poor decision over and over. It was a couple days later...actually 3 if I remember correctly, and no, she did not starve and we didn't neglect to feed her...we put the eggs on the table and she refused to eat them. She could eat them at any time...that option was wide open for her. She could open the fridge too. She still was given milk and other fluids, but was required to eat that healthy food that was in front of her. It was a good lesson. Cold eggs are nasty.
One kid "hated" mushrooms, but one day exclaimed that the ____ was delicious! We informed her that mushrooms were in it. She had been eating mushrooms for quite some time in this dish. Well, she saw her flaw and continued eating it. She was a bit amused & embarrassed at the same time, but never complained about it again.
This has worked for our children with various foods. They now eat and enjoy pretty much everything (broccoli, liver, brussel sprouts, etc.) except for the spiciest of foods, and sourkraut.
It was hard to do on our end, but it was a battle of wills. They actually enjoy those foods that they battled now and love to try new (and new cultural) foods. Haha! Fussy did not work here.
It was hard at first, but made life & meals easier in the long haul.