Have there been tough consequences in the past?
8/3/2023 at 9:11 PM
snowman5 said "I've always said to our kids, right at a very young age "It's a tool, not a toy". And we never changed our opinion towards the devices. As mentioned earlier by someone, "Many teens are not as responsible...". That's the root of the problem. Many kids are not properly taught to be accountable, or never fear the consequences. Phone etiquette is just the tip of the iceberg to a more significant problem with teen behavior.
I'm on our last one going through high school and this recent batch going through, now, is a doozy. So many in the mix are ignorant, selfish, entitled and just completely disrespectful to their peers, adults & to themselves. Don't get me wrong. lot's of crap happened with, around & by our other (older) kids & classmates, but this past year was a more notable one. Lots of poor behavior was done by and recorded through the phones, this year, but I don't blame the phone. This blame needs to be based on our kids integrity and/or behavior, created from our influences as the adults in charge. We are the blame, they're just the results of our direct/indirect teachings and the lack thereof. Now, I know the many of our kids social interactions/behavior has been somewhat compromised by the results of COVID, but it's been over a year and it's time to stop using it as an excuse to their attitude towards school. It's time to make examples out of the bad examples to straighten the majority out. It's time to replace the velvet gloves and replace them with brass knuckles and bring fear back to respecting adults, their teachers, peers and the rules of society.
As to the current policy in Brandon's High Schools... I know that Massey has a very loose one of students can have their phones, but usage is solely set by each teacher. So, it will vary from class to class. One of the main reasons to have the phone is because the wifi is poor in certain areas and kids can use their data plan to retrieve information & research during class time. But the abuse and the stupidity is increasing. I know of several students in their first/second year of both Crocus and Massey were suspended or expelled that involved phones. Granted, it's a good start. But the school needs to put the hammer down on the lesser infractions with phones, plus a crackdown towards student behavior on school property. I say leave the phones as they are in regards to having the on their person and give the students a lesson of responsibility with the fear of consequence when they choose to go against policy.
Just my opinion, I could be wrong. "
If the teacher takes the phone away during class, I think that might pose liability issues for the teacher/school and accusations of damaging students property (even if a slightly damaged phone was actually not damaged while out of the students possession)
What other consequences could be put in place?
Edited by Seana-T, 2023-08-03 21:13:16