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agree
12/23/2015 at 4:25 PM
Pet rescues, humane societies, as well as pet behavior experts all agree that pets do not make good gifts. Even if the receiver 'really want's a pet, there should be a lot of discussion and planning. A pet should nver be a surprise - there should be a lot of research, planning, and consultation with the potential owner. A child, no matter how involved and how able they are to care for the pet, should never be the sole person responsible - the child's parent must be prepared to be responsible for the pet when the child is busy, when they leave home to work/ go to school, when the pet needs care that is beyond the child's level of ability or funding, etc. A child should learn that a pet is not the same as a gift like a toy - the pet should be a life-long committment, not a belonging. The holiday season is not the ideal time to introduce a new pet to most housholds - routines are not the same, there is stress, hustle and bustle, extra people, extra decorations, extra business - which can be stressful for the new pet.
Giving a photo of the pet, or the supplies such as bowls and leashes is an excellent alternative. It is a fact that pets given as gifts, or pets that are gotten on a whim without appropriate planning and research, are much more likely to be given away/ sold/ rehomed/ turned into shelters. By raising awareness, hopefully this can be prevented.