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Hi i just needed to get a few things off my chest so here i go. The military claims to be all about families and doing the right thing well im a mother of 3 my fiancee is in the military i am 21 weeks pregnant and i went into preterm labour i was put onto bedrest to try and help keep this baby in for atleast another 8 weeks because if it is born before 28 weeks theres no way to save my baby it will be too small so my dr naturally put me on bedrest and gave my fiancee a note to get him time off to help with the care of our other children and help with me in case anything else goes wrong you would think any other job would give him the time off to assist in this care and be considerate and compassionate of the situation well no not the military they are telling him that its not their problem and that im just going to have to deal with it all as unfortunate as it may be well it will be unfortunate if i can not stop this labour and lose my child because he was not able to help with the care of all of it in order to try to help stop us from losing our baby. So all their stories on how they are so perfect and are here to help families is a freaking joke they dont actually care about their families at all. And i pray that while my fiancee is at work and im trying to hold of this labour nothing serious happens i will never have respect for them after this. Anyways thank you for listening for just a few brief moments i needed to get that off of my chest.