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to all the naysayers....
6/27/2015 at 11:43 AM
Does no one stop to think that what you are writing can hurt? Do you think that the family of the victim in the pickup truck will not read what you are writing? I can tell you without a shadow of a doubt that the family is reading it, how do I know this you may ask? Because the victim is my father, and yes he is expected to make a full recovery but he has a long hard road ahead of him. Even though this accident wasn't fatal it is still very scary for us. It's hard not to think about the what ifs, what if my father had not slammed on his breaks and cranked the wheel, what if the semi hit just a split second later. All those what ifs add up to a very bad, probably fatal situation. So for anyone to say that he wasn't paying attention, that he should have seen the semi coming, let me ask you this, would you have seen it coming? Would you have been able to stop it from happening? Maybe, maybe not, it's easy to sit at your little computer screen and say that it won't happen to you, but do you know that for a fact? Had you been in that situation do you know without a shadow of a doubt that it could have been prevented? No! You don't! Accidents do happen, to everyone! And if they don't happen to you well then you must be perfect! Alert the media! There is a perfect human being on planet earth! But to all the rest of us that do make mistakes, we are called humans for a reason, we aren't perfect but we try very hard to be the best version of ourselves that we can be. Yes, the semi ran the stop sign and no the semi didn't even try to stop, but only the driver of the semi will know for sure what happened. I have no ill will towards the driver of the semi, accidents happen, life gets messy and sometimes takes our concentration. I am just thankful that things weren't as bad as they could have been. My father is in the hospital in Winnipeg receiving excellent care from the medical staff, he is able to sit up for short amounts of time today but doing so makes him very tired. We see him get a little bit better every day and we thank god that someone was looking out for him that day and that we will get to spend many more years with our father. Have a great day and God bless