| | Butterflymbca said "| | Jellybean said "| | Butterflymbca said "Choosing a job you love over one without opportunity for advancement is NOT a lack of opportunity, it is a conscious decision. You are choosing passion over advancement and that is perfectly fine - but when you choose the action, you choose the consequence so you must live with the limitations of that career.
If you want more than you earn it isn't up to society to give you more it is up to you to earn it and if you can't or won't, that is on you not on society. " |
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So, what you are saying is if you have no desire to go to university, and become a professional, or if you can't afford to go to university, or do not have the desire to leave the career you love, you should be left with struggling to live, because if your choice of career?
I think that there should always be options out there for everyone. And by options, I do not mean fancy brand new cars, homes, tv's, etc. But to not have even the option of trying to get in to the housing market for example, so you can gain equity and work your way upwards, that is not right. Why do you think the vacancy rate for rentals is so low here and many other places? Because way too man people cannot afford to get started. If you are not provided with options to better your life, then it won't matter how dedicated you are or how hard you work. If you can't afford the cheapest education out there, or the cheapest house out there, etc. then you have no options.
Society doesn't need to cater to lazy people who want things handed to them, but at the same time, it doesn't need to make everything only possible for the rich.
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"if you have no desire to go to university, and become a professional, or if you can't afford to go to university, or do not have the desire to leave the career you love, you should be left with struggling to live, because if your choice of career"
If you work at a job or choose a career that only afford you a certain lifestyle - then yes, that is the lifestyle you get. If you want more, you do more.
I don't understand what you are saying - are you really suggesting that people should have any lifestyle that they want regardless of what or how much they do to earn it?
THAT is the sense of entitlement I was talking about. I will repeat. If you WANT more, than you DO more. If you aren't willing to do more than you get what you have. No one owes you a lifestyle.
There are ALWAYS options for people who want to work. Only those people looking for excuses not to say that they are victims of circumstance with no options. Edited by Butterflymbca, 2015-08-21 10:20:42" |
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Maybe you are missing my point?
I'll use another example.
I have a child who has special needs, and there is a real chance that she will be mentally incapable of attaining a university education someday. This is will leave her with a more limited pool of options for career choices. She will have to choose a career based what she loves, and and what she is capable of doing, and what is available where she will live. She will only have a certain earning potential no matter how hard she works, and how much she pours herself in to advancing to her potential.
So if her top earning potential based on her mental capability is too low and prices her out of ever being able to afford to get in to the housing market, or buy herself a reliable vehicle, etc., then that is ok? She should not be left with any options to be able to do these things? No, I don't think so. Prices of basic living should not be so high that is knocks out a certain class of people all together. And that is where our society is at. If you don't earn over a certain amount, there are certain areas things you simply can't do. There are not ALWAYS options for low income people.
Again, like I said, if you are lazy and just want to be handed things, that is totally different than being a dedicated hard working individual, who only can advance so far. I never once said that we should have the lifestyle we want no matter what we earn. No one should have to be left with no options either though because of what they earn. Working hard and bettering yourself does not necessarily mean you will earn more money. We can't all be doctors and lawyers just so that we are able to afford live in today's economy.