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I am a 31 yr old single mother, who has just recently gotten out of a relationship and I am finally taking the time I should have taken before after ending my last 2 relationships.  
 
I still have some healing to do and some time to take to my daughter, but I know that when I am ready to step out into the world again that Mr Right is going to be at that door waiting for me to take me away to Neverland.  
 
If you are him, or possibly think you may know someone then please take the time to email me and hopefully we can set off on the greatest adventure life has to bring.

Why don’t you just take a breather and spend quality time with yourself and your daughter? Just wondering as you said you just recently ended back to back relationships and had some healing to do yet ...but... requesting someone email? Not judging just know the cycle and figured out that we change a little as we go through life and that taking time especially when we have kids is usually beneficial. Shows our kids how to be strong and independent and that we want someone to share our lives not need. Just a thought, but I wish you well and be safe.

Are personal ads allowed in the discussion threads??  
 
Also, if you are placing a personal ad now, you are not 'taking the time you should have taken', LOL.

My advice to you would be stop. Stop anything regarding men. I did the SAME thing you are doing right now and it ended up being the biggest mistake I made in my life. I should have focused solely on the little life that I was responsible for at the time, and everything else should have come second.

I will not pretend that I know what is best for you. You should always be cautious when determining when is the right time for you to start dating but you know best. The one thing I will suggest is that, while you are single, make a list of wants and needs regarding traits your Mr. Right will possess. Trying to create that list while in a relationship can be nearly impossible due to the emotions involved. Having a written list to refer to and try to adhere to can ease internal conflict down the road.  
 
Best of luck you and your daughter with finding a gent who is right for you.  
 
P.S. - I am likely too old so I am giving this as helpful advice and not as a way to draw attention to myself.  
 
Edited by JustASoul, 2019-08-15 19:15:55

After you make that list of qualities you want in a partner, BE the things on that list. BE what you want to attract in a partner.  
And also-there is no one coming to take you to Neverland, you have to save yourself. Show your child how strong you are and what a strong woman looks like, and after that find the person who is your EQUAL, not someone to save you.

to everyone replying to Sami  
I am sure you have all been in the same senario in life,  
she means well and I am sure she knows what to do and when it is right for her to do it.and I am sure she will  
meet her twinflame or soulmate,he is out there.

Sent you a pm

This sounds like an ad!  
 
If it isn't....there are dating sites. Good Luck I guess.

I understand we all want to feel loved, it's in our DNA. Something I've learned (and still am learning) is, I never knew my worth, so those whom I chose to be a partner with didn't know my worth either, and thus treated me as such. I'm growing to love myself, respect myself, work hard to value myself. In turn , you won't tolerate anyone treating you any less than what you KNOW you deserve. That, my sister, should be first and foremost in your books. Learn to truly love who you are (making changes if necessary) and when or if a man does come around you won't accept any less, nor would any PROPER man treat you any different than what you accept. If he loves and treats you less, throw him out as the waste of time he truly is.