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Local women, what do you honestly prefer? Fit? Or dad bod??

I prefer not one extreme or the other - dad bod is fine as long they’re not extremely unfit to the point of mobility/health issues. I also am not a fan of super jacked muscles, where the individual is randomly bringing up their daily workouts on every date. I’m attracted to people who are active in general but that could just be a sport outing once a week or a walk most nights. I’m sure everyone differs in this subject but that’s just my preference.

I agree!! You said it perfectly.

sooner or later we all fall apart we loss what you think you have or trade them in for a younger newer model and think were all that til another trade in .

But it really doesn't matter the size of your gut, its your wallet that counts! May sound harsh but when I have been dumped at least 5 times because of that, its not too far from the truth.

Prefer a personality that doesn’t i:nclude lude suggestions two sentences into a first time talking. Body type has nothing to do with them as a human to me

Don't have to be super fit, but super flabby does not interest me either. Unlike the person 2 posts up-size of the bank account does not matter to me. I have no use for money grubbing people-that is not me at all, and I will not allow anyone to use me financially. As an extra note-i am turned off by massive tattoos. And ya, lewd jokes or comments on a first date (or regular, frequent basis later) is a complete turnoff.

I say to both men and women ... like what you like! Everyone has different taste and outer and inner beauty are by no means mutually exclusive. If you're happy and healthy that's what truly matters and the right person will like you for who you are on the outside and mostly on the inside!

I like a little tummy, clean cut or no hair. No tattoos. And when we go out he smells nice. No sticking body sweat.

To me, I dated with 1 extreme to the other. The muscle muscle body to me is gross, the overweight body was unhealthy, THAT being said the love of my life has a very active life style, which I love, and personality trumps it all. I live a very active lifestyle, within moderation, so I couldn't be with someone who didn't, or focused every day of their life on it...., bodies don't last forever, I like a great personality that does last.

As I get older, my body is changing and so is my preference of men. I like some girth to my men. I’m overweight myself, so I think I’d look rather odd with a muscular man. Plus, I’d like someone who has more to their life than being obsessed with their fitness. Confidence, kindness and a good sense of humor is key for me.

Dad bod with tattoos and piercings and a good personality is what i look for

To be honest I would select a fit person over a dad bod but not for the physical attraction. Dad bods are plenty attractive to me as well.  
 
I like guys who get me out and off the couch. I don't want to spend evenings on the couch with cookies. (Well I do want to but don't do it often because it's bad for my health)  
 
I tend to be drawn to guys who I see walking, running, and biking with me.

I don't think ALL local women prefer the exact same thing.  
 
As long as you're being your 'best self', you are going to do just fine out there. Pretty much no one wants to date a raging Narcissist or a couch blob.

It actually has nothing to do with the body type. Wear clothes that fit. You can be a dad bod but if your belly hangs out of your shirt that doesn't do it. If you are a muscular guy and it looks like your wearing a preteens shirt, that doesn't do it. But if you wear clothes that fit you will look good and no doubt feel good.  
 
So I guess I don't have a preference, just own what you got.

Dad bod.....as for the wallet comment. Pick a different type of girl lol or guy.....

Collie, No need to chime in with comments about your belief that women don't care about physique, but only money. Very insulting to women and off topic. Also, a turn off.

I agree. It doesn’t matter the body size as long as you wear clothes that fit. Clothes can flatter any size. I’ve dated all sizes and let me tell you it’s the personality that won every time.