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I've definitely felt this way and sometimes you're thinking right and other times you're wrong. I wouldn't just assume. Talk to him about how you feel towards him and ask him his intentions with you. This way a friendship won't be ruined by one person hoping it's more than the other one is.

It's really hard tho. I'm in a relationship rn for 2 months and when I told him that I already have a boyfriend, he becomes so cold to me. He had a gir now 2 weeks ago. Every time I saw them I get jealous or what. But I love my boyfriend tho.

What is it?  

Put on your big girl pants and take a look at yourself. You have feelings for this guy, and he doesn't seem to share them on the same level. He's in a relationship, and has backed off from you knowing you are in one as well.  
 
If you really care for your BF you should leave this guy alone. I bet you'd feel like crap if he told you that he felt that way about another girl.  
 
Stick with the green grass on this side of the fence ;)  

It isn't really that complicated. You have a boyfriend, he has a girlfriend. You either want to be in a relationship with your current boyfriend or you don't. Make up your mind before you start looking for other options, otherwise it isn't fair to your current boyfriend.

Yeah maybe

Know the feeling that after you pushed him and tell him that he has no chance, then now it seems like I'm regretting it, but I love my boyfriend. My mind is kinda messed up right now  

your boyfriend would be okay with exploring a polyamorous relationship?

wether yours relationship or his with a partner has been one day or more each one of you deserve to go at this honestly , why not take 20 minutes and converse with him and tell him where you and your boyfriend stand and if he and his other are partner are solid and find some common ground if you feel he is out fishin to fill a little black book then tell him to move on and that you have a solid relationship or do you !!!

Yes I do have!! I just can't talk to him about my feelings or about how I feel for him after I pushed him away and tell him that I don't date younger than me.

As i see it then you love your boy friend then it shouldn't be hard to put the other behind you eccept him as an admirer and nothing else and settle in with your boy friend and enjoy each other !  
Why is it that if you saw the other guy looking at you , you suddenly become interested by him watching you ?  
Should it be a flurtatious thing well that maybe some what inspiring iam sure but what stops the thought process of , hey i have a guy or man and we respect one another and thats all !! A young woman and a young man respecting each other ! There is usually never a Chiderella story but if you took a poll from middle age people and up showing them a picture of two young people spending time hand in hand there would be a general consensus that they care and love each other and in todays world there isn't much seen of this !  
So grab your boyfriends hand and avoid the flurts and glances from others and journey down the path of life with each other and see how far you"s make it as a team

Seems there is an undercurrent of short lived relationships going on in the world today, which can be found to be fueled by the underlying factors of new chains of communication taking prevelance in the world abound.  
 
There's a special little gem still hidden in the world that is called 'commitment' where we are satisfied with our selves and happy with the lives that we live.  
 
In my world, love starts with myself. Once I have that, I can consider exploring that in others. Whether it be through intimacy, shared glances, or the love of chicken wings. mmmmmm... Love is meant to be shared, but it comes from within.  
 
It's a reflective state of being. I am love. I see the world through loving eyes. In that love, I see myself in the world and all things. There are those special somebodies who happen across my existence, where we can share a bond. At times, those instances only last a heartbeat or a blink of an eye, others last for years. Still more yet, for my lifetime. Some love was meant to be shared at a distance.  
 
Where does your heart lay?