| | sunzu said "If the victim's name in this case was the the name of your son/ daughter mother/sister etc. would you feel the same? Would organizing a ball tournament fundraiser for Mental Health help with the pain? It's impossible to feel what this mother is feeling but try and honestly ask yourself could you forgive or forget and not question our justice system?
What kind of counselling has this family received? All the while the murderer of her son received the best and on our dime I might add! I can hardly put into words what I feel.... " |
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I would feel the same.
I would keep Tim's memory "alive", but of course I would be distraught.
I would know that after awhile, I was only beating my head against the justice system that will never change for this incident.
I would definitely need counseling, but I would emphasize my thoughts on the positives of Tim's life.
I, myself like to be very informed, I may actually enter some mental health programs to help me learn more about it.
Of course, none of this would take the hurt away of this terrible incident and I would think of it everyday. But knowing I would be expending all my energies on hate, a justice system that would not change, only to probably cause me anxiety and I am sure trauma or depression, I would try and find something to keep my families memory alive, by doing something in his/her honor and sending funds to mental illness.
There are 100 different typed of mental illness, with hardly any funding. Because I have treatment resistant depression I have done so much research. I would also like to say that there is a shortage of psychiatrists. When I first became ill, it took me three months to get an appointment. I wonder if it is like that in other provinces? If Li had asked for help, would it have taken him three months to get an appointment, in which case, this incident still could have happened. If he did get an appointment, would he have been diagnosed right away, not likely. I tried 9 different medications over the past fours years to find the one that "works better" than others, that could have happened with Li too. (I know I got off topic)
It is a horrible, horrible disease. The brain has so many complexities to it.
It was also a horrible event, I get that.