Joined: Nov 2012
Posts: 148
Male doctors...
6/24/2018 at 9:04 AM
I had a male gynecologist in Brandon fail to even appear to consider offering me a female nurse in the room. I was shocked to be told I Had To Have a pap on my first visit to him, and i didnt make a stink about having a female nurse in the room, but I regret it.
So, if it is a male doctor, you do have the right to ask for a female staff member in the room, or someone you trust.
I think sometimes medical practitioners that have been doing this for a long time forget about consent, and trust, and that while it is extraordinarily routine to them, it may be uncomfortable, painful, or just feel like it leaves the recipient without a lot of dignity.
And no, apparently it is not normal for it to be really painful, either. Uncomfortable, yes. Painful, no. Wish I had known that years ago, and spoke up for myself on that too.