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My sister inlaw is battling cancer. And we were talking to her on web cam, she paused for a bit and said "talk to them for a bit i'm goin outside for a quick smoke". Me and my husband looked at each other in shock. Like wth just happend, when she got back. My husband asked her if she was going to quit. She totally brushed it off, and changed the subject. And yet she holds alot of fund raisers and expects people to support her. I don't think it's fare to the people, that are supporting her. Why should anyone help her if she's not helping herself. Am i wrong for feeling this way. Am i bad person if we don't wanna continue to support her. As far as we know she still continues to smoke.