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So i been pining away for this women for about 2 years. Everytime i hang out with her i fall in love, and everytime she tells me im her best "guy Friend" my heart gets smashed into little bits. Now Ive tried to distance myself so that i can possibly meet someone else to love and to hold, but she keeps calling just as i get over her not wanting me in that way. She is everything i need out of a relationship, inteligent, funny, same long term goals, i know a great deal about her and her past, same interests. Gah it just kills me that the chemistry is there but she wont let me in.  
 
Now im sure most of you are thinking oh hes just lookin for a quik bang out this, not true, i feel i could spend the rest of my life with this lady and be very happy doing it, but ive been pushed into the dreaded friend zone.  
 
now here is the really annoying part and probably my downfall. She has dated probably 5 guys scince i met her and everytime these things go down hill she calls me crying, about how these guys are assholes and blah blah blah. so hoping she may see me in a different light i do the goodly thing and try and make her laugh and feel better about herself.  
 
One of these days do you all think i should just make a move and kiss her see where that goes, or do i just give up and try and find someone else. at this point i think i got a 50/50 chance of things going well in my favour and losing a good friend i like spending time with.  
 
Some Advice would be helpful