Abbysmum said "Flutterby, I hear you on the PTSD thing. I typically get very panicky if anything covers my face or restricts my breathing in any way (I don't know why specifically, I've just always been like that). The few times I've had a mask for surgery for gases etc, I've panicked and tried to get up and leave. I warned them the last time and they were ready for me LOL.
That being said, have you tried wearing one? I'm only asking because I thought I would have trouble with it, but it turns out I'm fine. I think because mentally it's a protection thing that allows me, psychologically, to do it. I practiced wearing it around the house first. I think too because I'm controlling it, it's easier. It took a bit, but now I'm quite comfortable wearing one.
I also sewed my own masks. I think the process, from beginning to end, also helped. Again, I was in control. It's for my protection and the protection of others. It's something safe. I can do this.
But yes, we need to remember that at least some of the people out there who aren't wearing masks are doing so for legitimate reasons. We need to give everyone the benefit of the doubt, just like when we see a out-of-province license plate. We need to assume those people are following the rules, and then follow the rules ourselves.
I agree with you with kids in stores, but I think in the short term it's important to keep numbers as low as possible in stores. This will become more important once they start restricting numbers again, which I expect they will once flu season rears it's head. My children being in the store forces someone else to wait outside. My kids understand this, and accept it as a temporary measure. We did bring them the other day because both my husband and I needed to be there for something and we have no child care, but it was literally the first time since March I had them in. They know it was a one-time deal. "
Thank you for bring gracious.
Sorry about the late reply, but yes, I have. Not just now, but even when younger for other purposes. I had some mild reaction back then, but it is much worse now...after the incident that changed things for me is when it became a no go.
When my daughter was making masks, she wanted me to try one on for size. That was the hardest thing ever. She thought my reaction was funny, but putting that over my face brought such an instant negative reaction, I don't want to go there again.
I have temporarily overcome a few similar things by moving forward slowly, forcing the issue, or talking through it, but this one seems to stick.
I have no issue with anyone wearing a mask, provided its worn correctly. I would wear one if I could. There are some beautiful ones out there!
We still haven't brought all of our kids into a store. Some of them haven't been into a store since before this whole thing started in earnest. The first ones to go with us hadn't been in one for over 3 months.
I have wondered, what is going to happen within stores if schools open fully...and without masks & reduced distancing as is being recommended by mental health professionals? There is talk about that. How would it make a difference in the stores if kids are already gathering in closed spaces within close proximity?